How to Work With Me

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TL;DR

  • Keep things concise. I don’t need essays. Be direct. Be concise. Skip fluff.
  • Try solving the problem first. Come with your approach.
  • Bring context + a point of view.
  • I value speed, clarity, and ownership over perfection.
  • Async first. align quickly when needed.
  • If you’re stuck or something is unclear, ask early.

Why this exists

This is to remove guesswork.

As David Politis suggests, a "how to work with me" guide makes implicit preferences explicit so people don’t have to read between the lines or guess how to collaborate


How I Think About Work

I’m a builder first.

I like solving problems, not discussing them endlessly. If something can be tested, prototyped, or validated quickly, that’s usually the right direction.

I naturally think in:

  • systems
  • trade-offs
  • practical outcomes

If something sounds good in theory but doesn’t work in reality, I’ll push back.

I prefer shipping over overthinking. We can iterate. we don’t need perfect upfront.

Momentum matters a lot.


What I Expect From You

Come prepared

Before reaching out:

  • Try to solve it yourself
  • Write down what you tried
  • Tell me where you’re stuck

You’ll get a much better response from me if you come with:

This is what I tried, this is where it failed

Ownership over dependency

I appreciate people who:

  • take initiative
  • make decisions
  • don’t wait to be told every next step

Raise things early

  • Ask early if something is unclear
  • Raise risks early. not when it’s too late

How to Communicate With Me

Preferred style

  • Clear, concise, structured
  • Bullet points > long paragraphs
  • No over-explaining unless needed

Bad:

Long context with no conclusion

Good:

Context → Problem → Suggested approach → Ask

Be direct

You don’t need to soften things.

Instead of:

Just checking, maybe we could…

Say:

This is blocked because of X. Need your input.

Channels

  • Async first (Slack, messages)
  • Calls when things are ambiguous or blocking
  • Docs for decisions. not just discussion

If something is urgent, say it explicitly. don’t assume I’ll infer it.

What gets my attention fast

  • Clear problem statement
  • Trade-offs already thought through
  • A recommendation, even if imperfect

How to Get Fast Decisions From Me

If you want a quick answer, give me:

  • Context in 1 to 2 lines
  • Options (A / B / C)
  • Your recommendation

Example:

We can do A (fast, messy) or B (clean, slower). I suggest A because of deadline.

If it’s reversible, decide fast and move.

Not everything needs a meeting.


Problem Solving & Decision Making

Approach

  • Break things into smaller parts
  • Focus on what actually moves the needle
  • Avoid unnecessary complexity

If something feels over-engineered, I will push back.

Decision style

  • Quick alignment with enough context
  • Bias for action
  • Prefer progress over perfection

Working With Me on Projects

What I expect

  • Ownership. don’t wait to be told next steps
  • Keep things moving
  • Align on direction before going too deep

What works well

Regular updates (async or weekly) with:

  • what’s done
  • what’s next
  • blockers

Calling out uncertainty clearly instead of guessing silently

What doesn’t work

  • Over-polished updates with no substance
  • Waiting too long to ask questions
  • Doing work without aligning on direction

Feedback Style

How I give feedback

  • Direct
  • Honest
  • Focused on the work, not the person
  • Usually quick, not overly detailed

If something is wrong, I’ll say it clearly.

How I like to receive feedback

You won’t offend me by being honest.

  • Don’t overthink tone
  • Be straightforward
  • Say what’s not working
  • Suggest improvements if possible

No need to sugarcoat. clarity over comfort.


Under Pressure

  • I get more focused and direct
  • I prioritize speed and decisions
  • I may skip niceties. it’s not personal

If something feels off, call it out.


Things That Might Be Misunderstood

  • Short messages ≠ lack of interest
  • Direct feedback ≠ personal criticism
  • Pushing for speed ≠ ignoring quality

Things That Frustrate Me

  • Asking without trying
  • Overcomplicating simple problems
  • Lack of ownership
  • Repeating the same mistake without learning
  • Long discussions with no outcome

Things I Value Highly

  • Clear thinking
  • Speed and quality balance
  • Practical problem solving
  • Taking initiative
  • Communicating early when blocked

My Working Style

  • I prefer momentum over perfection
  • I’m okay with iteration instead of over-planning
  • I’ll challenge ideas, not people
  • I care about efficiency a lot

Sometimes this can come across as:

  • blunt
  • impatient

It’s usually because I’m optimizing for speed and clarity.


When I’m at My Best

  • Solving real problems
  • Breaking down messy situations
  • Making decisions quickly

When I’m Not at My Best

  • Too many unnecessary meetings
  • Slow decision-making loops
  • Lack of clarity in ownership

How to Work Best With Me

  • Think first, then keep it short
  • Bring solutions, not just problems
  • Optimize for clarity over completeness
  • Move fast and align often

Bonus. How to Impress Me

  • Anticipate problems before they happen
  • Simplify something complex
  • Take ownership without being asked
  • Ship something that actually works

Final Note

This is not fixed.

If something here isn’t working for you, tell me. The goal is to continuously improve how we collaborate.